Life is constant change, big test for this is that our body is almost completely renewed every ten years. Incredible! but then... Why do we get so afraid of change?
Human beings are animals of habit, from a very young we feel safer in the monotony, because our material mind loves to know what will happen tomorrow, be in control, but our true self sometimes this comes to seem boring. When a significant and unexpected change in life, our first reaction is fear and rejection of him.
The famous popular saying, "is better known evil than an unknown good" is a clear example of the most common way to deal with the changes by most people. Again we have to change the approach with which we view the world, we must see the great changes as the beginning of a new reality full of opportunities for us, we have to move forward and not be paralyzed waiting for the situation back to what it was or by the fear of not knowing what will happen to us. Remember that time just as you conceive people is an illusion created by our mind, the future shouldn't worry too much and cling to the past with classic "with how well I was" not going to be very productive.
In the last post on the acceptance, we talked about the importance of not resisting the situations that arise in life, to accept makes life flow in a way smoother, more friendly, and even we can know our true nature as mortals that we are, as our material mind refuses to understand death, does not want cease to exist, but also tends not to accept our other party that you can not "see" and that does not die with our body. We must accept change when they arrive, and we should be more present in our lives to see them arrive more in advance and to take the measures that we consider appropriate.
So it is clear that the most productive and correct attitude is to accept the change, feel love for your life and your surroundings, be thankful for what you have and what you are, be positive and look with perseverance, faith and strength of will a new living situation we meet again, and I assure you that if we use these tools listed, it is likely that this new situation will be much better than we were living so far.
In this blog I want to emphasize, with particular momentum, is that our mind, in most cases, is out of control and rude, but with practice, simple exercises we discussed and real desire to change, you can educate and convert a great tool to generate the life you really want, of love and happiness. Do you accept the change?
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